The Big Importance of Small Decisions

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By the author of Be Ready for Anything and the online course Bloom Where You’re Planted

Every day, we make a million small decisions. What we’ll eat for lunch, who to ask a question at the office, which route to take home, whether we should pick up takeout or cook dinner, if we want to take a walk, who will drive the kids to practice, and when to go to bed.

None of these things seems overly important, but sometimes the small decisions can have big effects. Sometimes they don’t really matter, and sometimes they can be the difference whether you live or die.

When you’re in one of those life or death situations, you must have the ability to quickly come up with the options, figure out what could go wrong, and decide which holds less risk.

Here’s an example.


Recently, I had a business trip to New York City. My daughters wanted to come so we opted to take a couple of days to see the sights. (I know, I know, you would never take your kids to the city and you think I’m a terrible mom.  But this isn’t the point of the article.)

We had a great time, and on our last evening there, we decided to stop for ice cream in a beautiful public square in front of Macy’s at 33rd Street. As we were hanging out, eating our ice cream, I noticed a few cops wearing shirts that identified them as part of the NYPD counterterrorism unit. Of course, I immediately began paying close attention.

At the same time, I got a notification on my phone from a business that monitors DHS and other anti-terrorism organizations. It stated that New York and other cities were checking out some public places “out of an abundance of caution” because the US had just bombed Syria and they were concerned about potential retaliation. (Several people have asked about the service I was using. It’s a paid subscription and worth every penny: http://www.alertsusa.com/)

I honestly seemed to be the only person in the entire area who noticed that these officers were checking planters and trash cans for I can only assume were possible explosive devices. Everybody else was too glued to their phones to notice. I actually saw a woman in her 20s be asked to move so they could check the planter she was sitting on and she did so without ever looking up, making eye contact, or assessing the situation.

So, on alert, as I was, I had to make a decision that normally would have been of little import. I had to decide how to quickly and safely get us back to New Jersey and our hotel room.

So I had a small decision to make.


Here were my options along with the details.

Option1: Take the subway, which had a stop a couple of blocks from our hotel.

  • The subway would take 15 minutes to get us back
  • But did we want to be stuck in train underground in the event of a terror attack?

Option 2: Take a cab, but the cab would have taken us through the Holland tunnel.

  • The cab ride would likely be 40 minutes.
  • This would take us not only underground, but also under the waters of the Hudson River.

I opted for speed. We walked briskly to the subway and were safely in our rooms within half an hour.

Obviously, nothing happened, so this was not an “important” decision. But it had the potential to be.

Other examples of small decisions


There are so many times in which your ability to rapidly assess a situation and make a small decision could be vitally important. These are some examples.

When the plane hit the Twin Towers on 9/11, people in the towers had to make several decisions:

  • Should they go immediately or wait until it is announced?
  • Stairs or elevator?
  • Did they need to find out what happened?
  • Which exit should they head toward?

When flames approached homes in the Napa Valley wildfires last year in California, these were the things to assess:

  • Should they go immediately?
  • Which route should they take?
  • Did they have time to save their livestock/pets?
  • What should they take with them?
  • Would they be safe waiting for the official evacuation notice while they gathered their possessions?

A mom is with her children in a convenience store when it gets robbed.

  • Should she hide with the kids?
  • Should she tell the kids to hide so she can use her concealed carry firearm to confront the robber?
  • Should she risk the noise of calling 911?
  • Should they make a break for the emergency exit?

Civil unrest erupts in your town while the kids are at school and you are at work.

  • Should you tell the kids to get home on their own?
  • Should you leave work to go pick them up?
  • Should you all shelter in place?
  • Should you all head for a meeting place other than your home?

You’re vacationing at a touristy spot in a city and there’s a terror attack.

  • Are you in a place where a vehicular attack could be possible?
  • Where could you go to be protected from such an attack? (Into a building, behind a concrete barrier, etc)
  • Where are all the exits?
  • Where could you go if you needed to take cover?

A hurricane is barreling toward your coastal city.

  • Should you plan on hunkering down despite evacuation warnings?
  • Should you go at the last possible minute?
  • Should you take highways or backroads?
  • Should you leave well before it hits?

As you can see, many of these small decisions must be made in a split second. You may not have time to map out all the pros and cons. You may become indecisive when you’re afraid.

You can train yourself to make decisions more quickly.


Begin to think about all of your decisions in a different way. No matter how small they are, there are always variables that you can weigh. The more you do this, the faster you will become at making well-thought-out yet speedy choices.

Whenever you’re making a choice, ask yourself these questions and answer them as rapidly as possible.

  • What are my options?
  • What is the upside of each?
  • What is the downside of each?
  • What could potentially go wrong with each?

It may seem silly to decide which route to take home from work this way or plan the evening schedule with a decision tree, but you’ll soon find that your choice-making is occurring faster and faster.

Then, when a real emergency strikes, you’ll be ready.

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Daisy Luther

Daisy Luther is a coffee-swigging, globe-trotting blogger. She is the founder and publisher of three websites.  1) The Organic Prepper, which is about current events, preparedness, self-reliance, and the pursuit of liberty on her website, 2)  The Frugalite, a website with thrifty tips and solutions to help people get a handle on their personal finances without feeling deprived, and 3) PreppersDailyNews.com, an aggregate site where you can find links to all the most important news for those who wish to be prepared. She is widely republished across alternative media and  Daisy is the best-selling author of 5 traditionally published books and runs a small digital publishing company with PDF guides, printables, and courses. You can find her on FacebookPinterest, Gab, MeWe, Parler, Instagram, and Twitter.

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  • My husband & I like to explore our surroundings to learn alternate ways of getting home or leaving home. It is best to plan ahead for not only what you need to do but for your options as well in case plan a becomes a non-option.

  • FYI, the generic name for the skill you refer to is called: critical thinking. And you are a great mom to take your kids into Manhattan to experience the culture. You should also have been using the situation as a teachable moment for: 1) situational awareness; 2) degrees of alertness; 3) urban island evacuation methods; 4) critical thinking; and 5) the items you should have had on you to be prepared for such an event.

    Children cannot be coddled if they are to learn to be self-sufficient as that is your first responsibility as a parent. Teaching them how to handle urban situations is just as important as teaching them to handle a rural situation. Good article.

  • Hi Daisy,

    You stated “I got a notification on my phone from a business that monitors DHS and other anti-terrorism organizations”. Can you share the name of this business/app, please?

  • “I got a notification on my phone from a business that monitors DHS and other anti-terrorism organizations. ” Sometimes I have to travel to big cities (ex., Atlanta) and sure would like to know of a service that monitors DHS or other gov’t entities that I could get a “head’s up” text from…

  • Daisy, I’m sure you have heard of the OODA LOOP.
    OBSERVE the situation and then
    ORIENT yourself so you know what your options are
    DECIDE on the best option
    ACT – DO IT!

  • https://youtu.be/KbZLuqvhFpY

    Daisy this is a true video from a homesteading blog I follow called Guildbrook Farms. Perhaps you are familiar with them. When Jamie- the mom- decided to take her dream of a lifetime vacation in Nepal in 2015, she survived a 7.8 earthquake that killed 9000 people. Her story of survival was so interesting. She shares what helped her that she had brought and what she wishes she could have remembered or thought about to bring. Your excellent advice on what to think about reminded me of Jamies video. You always trigger me to think about things I never would have.

  • Thank you for this article Daisy!
    I need to do this more. Living in a small rural town doesn’t mean something can’t happen here.
    Semper Paratus ~ Always Ready.

  • Sometimes it pays to listen to as I call them “the little voices.” Call it instinct, male or female intuition or little voices listen and use the wisdom imparted. I stayed for the fire in the forest that I call home. I would not recommend it for the faint of heart. I and 2 out of 3 of my neighbors house’s survived. As for # 4 I did the best I could. Remember to try and stay calm and think and do rational things. Most of all PRAY. Foot

  • Very good article. Situational awareness is of utmost importance. I had a career in the US ARMY, and it was a good career with tons of good training. I can tell you that awareness of my surroundings has helped me avoid what could of turned out to be catastrophic for me and my family. It doesn’t mean that you’re paranoid. It means that you are aware of what’s going on!

  • Very good article. It’s amazing what effect small decisions can have. Once, a small decision got me stuck in a flood. Another small decision helped me avoid another. Still another small decision, plus awareness, helped me evade a crackhead bent on tailing me. Knowing all the little ins and outs of your neighborhood is a great thing. And if you’re being followed, never go straight home. Great job not being stuck in Phoneland, but rather using it for a good purpose with your app.

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    In the near future I would like to make you aware of homeopathic remedies in case of war and disaster.

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  • I’m glad you had a good visit to the city!
    I had to laugh at your story about the people in Herald Square who were too busy staring into their cell phones to notice counterterrorism police operating in the area.
    I once talked to a man who was working in one of the twin towers on 9/11. He said that when he felt the building shake, he instantly grabbed his stuff and ran to the stairs. He didn’t try to find out what had happened, and he didn’t talk to anyone. Unfortunately, most of us would be too scared of getting fired to act so decisively. And I once worked in a building that had so many emergency evacuations for stupid stuff like microwave popcorn fires, that eventually people just started refusing to evacuate when the alarm went off.

  • About that decision to evacuate from a hurricane threat (or wildfire, et al), it might help to think through the alternatives ahead of time — so you’re more comfortable making a quick decision.

    If you wait until officialdom issues a mandatory evacuation order, consider the possibility of all evacuation routes turning into giant parking lots full of cars out of gas, or broken down, or wrecked by panicked drivers.

    If instead you can bug out BEFORE that evac order is issued, your chances of making a clean and much safer getaway are vastly better.

    –Lewis

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