Be the Hero, Not the Victim

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Preparedness.  It’s a state of mind.

When you are a prepper, you begin to think differently than the other folks on the block.  Not only do you take steps to become physically prepared, with food, medical supplies and tools – but you are mentally prepared.  You develop a problem-solving mindset.

Part of the reason for that is that preparedness is predicting problems before they occur.  Let’s take a snowstorm for example, because where I live, this is a very common occurrence.  We’re used to it, nobody panics about it and we have come to expect it.

We know that if there is heavy ice and snow accompanied by high winds the following events are likely to occur.

  • We may lose power.
  • We may not be able to safely get out of our driveways for a few days.

Next, we take each of these issues and break them down to their components.  We play through the possibilities in our minds.

  • If we lose power, we won’t be able to cook on the electric stove, our thermostats (if we have them) for central heat will not work, there will be no TV or internet, and our water won’t run (my place is on an electric pump.)
  • If we cannot get out of our driveways, we cannot get to the store for items that we “need”, we cannot run to the pharmacy if we have a minor health issue or injury and we are staying here at the property for a few days.

Finally, we plan ahead to resolve these issues, and in doing such, they are no longer issues, just occurrences.

  • We can heat food and cook on the woodstove, we can heat the house with wood or our back-up heat source, we have books and games for entertainment, and we store drinking water and flushing water.
  • We never allow ourselves to run low enough on any necessary item that we MUST go to the store or we will suffer, we have a fully stocked medicine cabinet and first aid kit, as well as the knowledge to use them, and there’s just no place we have to go.

Now, many people write this type of preparedness off to “gloom and doom.”  But here’s your alternative.

For a week before Superstorm Sandy hit the East Coast, residents were warned of the impending disaster.  Many areas were told to evacuate.  Others were told to stock up for several days without power, food and water. I’m sure that many residents weathered the storm and it’s aftermath with dignity, taking their families’ survival into their own hands, heeding the warnings and preparing themselves. They are the unsung heroes in the story – how many reports did we see on the news of the people who did NOT have to stand in line for an MRE and a bottle of water?  How many reports did we see of people who quietly used alternative heat and remained safely in their homes?

Few if any – and why?  Because the government and the “powers that be” want the people to feel like victims.  They need to be needed because if they are not needed, then they are obsolete.  It’s all part of the grand social brainwashing that is meant to foster an attitude of dependence on the “state” instead of one of self-reliance and fortitude.  Dependence on a person or entity for your survival means that you OWE that person or entity your allegiance. It means that in order for you to survive, you may also have to comply – and that the terms of that compliance are entirely up to those upon whom your survival relies.

The press played up the victims of the storm – the media encouraged victimhood instead of personal empowerment by these displays of people begging for the government to save them.  Weakness was promoted, instead of strength.

“When is the government coming?  We’re gonna DIE.”

I feel incredible sympathy for the people who lost everything in that disaster.  I can only imagine the mental anguish of living through such an event.  It’s one thing to require assistance if your home and everything in it was destroyed by severe weather.  But if a person is stranded in his home for a week or two without power, that is eminently survivable, even in the middle of winter.  It might not be pleasant, but it would not require government intervention for anyone who has planned ahead – or for anyone who has a survivor’s mentality.

A survivor’s mentality means that you are the hero of the story.  You are not the princess, waiting for a dashing prince to ride in on a white stallion and save you.  This means that instead of looking for Prince Charming coming down the road in a FEMA truck, you’ll be…THINKING.  That, right there is the real difference.  Hero’s think, victims wait.

What is a hero thinking about?

  • How to maintain a survivable body temperature
  • What to eat and how to cook it
  • How to protect his or her family and property
  • How to overcome damage done by a storm or other catastrophe, particularly if that damage affects temperature and security
  • How to keep those around them calm and focused
  • How to prevent further damage from occurring

Each of the concerns above that a survivor has already prepared for allows his or her energy to be focused on the other needs that must be met.  A prepper’s practice of thinking about the things that might possibly go wrong is basic training for survival – we are accustomed to thinking in a way that others are not.  We don’t just think about meeting our current need for a drink of water; we think about meeting our future need for a supply of water and 3 different ways to filter it.  Then we think about anything that could get in the way of our plans and come up with solutions for those issues as well.  We don’t just rely on plan A – we have B. C, and D, at the very least because this is the way that our minds work.  This is what sets us apart from the people waiting for hours in the FEMA lines.

What about you – are you the hero of your story or the victim in need of rescue?


Daisy Luther

Daisy Luther

Daisy Luther is a coffee-swigging, globe-trotting blogger. She is the founder and publisher of three websites.  1) The Organic Prepper, which is about current events, preparedness, self-reliance, and the pursuit of liberty on her website, 2)  The Frugalite, a website with thrifty tips and solutions to help people get a handle on their personal finances without feeling deprived, and 3), an aggregate site where you can find links to all the most important news for those who wish to be prepared. She is widely republished across alternative media and  Daisy is the best-selling author of 5 traditionally published books and runs a small digital publishing company with PDF guides, printables, and courses. You can find her on FacebookPinterest, Gab, MeWe, Parler, Instagram, and Twitter.

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  • As I posted shortly after Sandy, :

    Funny how the mass media grabs topics of this type, I have taught many on urban, sub-urban jungle and both tundra and desert survival (leaving out ocean skills since it would not apply) And very recently some current listeners/practitioners and myself where tried when Sandy hit the NJ coast (a temp dwelling for me) being an admirer of the coast I was right on the path of steady 95 mph winds and 1 foot ASL (a none evacuated or mandatory evacuating area) as well as a many others with their families, When cell service came back up (10 hours after landfall for a few of them) their txt message to me was not Are you ok? It was thank you for the things you’ve taught me, people in my neighborhood looked to me as a pro thanks to the lessons learned, My reply was you did it brother I just showed you the ways and put your plans into action no panic. What we in the so called prepper realm hope to accomplish is to be prepared to survive any type of event man made or natures beauty (catastrophes when it adversely affects us humans) long enough to make further plans and so second nature that there is no panic. I guess personnel with S.E.R.E school training are tin foil wearing ding dongs also since they may never need their skills. Hehehe TGF S.E.R.E and MREs

  • A bit late, but we everything went according to plan during the effects of Hurricane Sandy. We do not live directly on the coast. We were without power for 11 days. We had enough heat, and water. We had enough food and able to cook it. We were able to save all of our food in our freezer as well as the refrigerator. We filled up every car and can for gasoline before the storm hit. We had alternate lighting. It took four hours to maintain every day. The important thing was that our preparations worked.

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